There was a time when it was
not at all a matter and many pairs, either they really forget their wedding
anniversary or simply ignore. Some people go to temples and pray for the
well being of their family and children.
Now it has become an era of
nuclear family. Every year people celebrate Birthdays, Wedding
anniversaries in order to make themselves alive (?)
It may also be the reason that
spending every single year with either of them looks a great task. Due to
certain compulsion, people accept their spouse for some or other reason
and lead a life of sacrifice (!).
In Early days, in India, that
too in Tamil Nadu there was unity in the families and separation of a husband
and wife was considered most inauspicious.
The elders in the families strive hard to unite those couple at any
cost.
Now a days, the entire scenario
has changed. The elders themselves are
not mature enough or no one is ready to lend an ear to their advices.
The chaos in the families makes
the children upset, their studies gets affected, they fear about “life”. The mental health of children gets disturbed
and various problems crop up gradually.
The tolerance level is getting
narrowed day by day. People has become more
and more selfish and hence resulting in separation. The sense of sacrifice is all the more
necessary for everybody who is getting married.
The responsibility in up-bringing
of the children is in the hands of both the parents and they can share it as
well. It is not only for the welfare of
their own family but also for the entire society and the Nation.
One
of my friends told me that she is going to celebrate her silver jubilee
celebration of her wedding anniversary.
I requested them to thank each other for bearing with one to one.
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